Fear & Anger

People say that the opposite of love is fear. If you have someone holding a gun to your head and fearing for your life, is it because you don’t have enough love in your heart at that moment? Fear has nothing to do with love. Fear is a natural response to danger.

Some people that anger is the absence of love. I disagree.

You can be full of love and still experience both – fear and anger. Both are prime core natural emotions that evolved as a way of surviving and protecting yourself from what is considered a danger, threat, or wrongdoing. Anger is a normal response to abnormal treatment. If you keep experiencing anger, it means that you haven’t defeated or resolved the source of danger, threat, or pain. Of course, there are extreme cases, but those people probably have other problems too, not just with anger.

There are only two reactions to danger: fear or anger. In both cases, the body is flooded with a hormonal cocktail that is specific to the person’s nature/character.

Both reactions are observable in appearance. Fear lowers blood pressure which causes a pale face. Anger raises blood pressure resulting in a red face.

It is important to observe people's reactions and actions in uncomfortable situations. While actions and behavior can be controlled, the reaction of the body cannot. True character reveals itself in both reactions and actions.

A pale face signals that this person may not be capable of standing up for themself and they may need your help and protection. People with predominant benefic Mars in their birth chart are naturally very good at spotting out the weak ones. On a very deep unconscious level, they are driven by a need to protect the weaker ones. (Mars in Aries, Leo, 1st, and 12th houses)

It is important to be aware of these traits in potential partners, particularly in romantic relationships. Men who exhibit these traits may not be suitable partners as they may lack bravery and may not be reliable or trustworthy. Women should not feel obligated to take on the role of the "man" in the relationship and should seek out partners who are supportive and reliable.

In conclusion, fear and anger are natural emotions that have evolved as a means of protecting ourselves from harm. It is important to acknowledge and observe these emotions in ourselves and others, as they can reveal important aspects of a person's character and potential as a partner or ally.

To harmonize Mars’ energy:

• sports

• fire breath

• cooking

• red meat

• fiery (hot) spices

• red color

• red coral (pendant, necklace, or ring on the ring finger)

• behavioral modifications to boost testosterone and dopamine

Check out the 7-Day Planetary Attunement program if you would like to learn how to harmonize Planetary energies: Moon, Mars, Mercury, Jupiter, Venu, Saturn, and Sun.